I have been a reader in this forum for a while now,usually see the help through advise being given to people,which made me to bring this issue here because at this point,I don’t know what exactly to tell this my guy becuase this issue is beyond me.
My friend has been dating his girlfriend for two years now,the babe is know to us(his friends) and his family as the only woman for him. It was a no se.x relationship as the girl said her virginity is her pride. My guy accepted to wait till when they get married as he truly love this babe. Last year ending, one guy moved into the compound of this girl, that was when stories entered their beautiful relationship.
To cut the long story short, recently my guy’s girlfriend that never wanted s.ex started disturbing him of s.ex, he was surprised about it, later agreed as she made him promise her to indulge in it with her. Alarm blew on the supposed day they were meant to have the se.x as he wanted to cover his white sheets because of possible blood stains, she told him blood won’t come out. He went in and blood never came out. Since then, she had been lying and swearing she was a virgin which my guy persisted she was not.
She opened up to him of recent that she lost it to the new guy in their compound who as of then almost made them to break up but was pleaded with him not to break the relationship by her aunt and some good friends of hers’.
She doesn’t have anything to do with that guy she lost it to because the issue went out of proportion then in their compound, which made my guy to start growing faith in her again upon knowing she slept with that guy in her compound few times when she cheated with him.
She recently confessed to him she knew blood won’t come out as she slept with the compound guy once before the day they had sex. The twist now is that who he met a virgin could not hold on to it for him but gave it away to another guy.he is questioning the girl’s love on how she could have done such.he still loves her but can’t say if he can trust her not to try such if eventually he marries her.she begged for forgiveness.but to be honest,I don’t know what to say to this guy.
Please, friends, your candid advise will go a long way in shaping someone’s future here as of life partner as he plans on getting married by next year ending..